Hi thanks for getting back to me.
Right now I only see 2 on jaffacakemonster2 and 1 on jaffacakemonster. Seeing 3 would be weird, because in order for a pair of relays to be in the same family, they must both list each other in their torrcs.
My family thing has settled now, I think this was because I changed the name from "jaffacakemonster" to "jaffacakemonster1", havnt looking the Atlas bug too much I guess its because it took a few hours for the changed names to ripple through.
My 2nd relay has a dirport set, 9030, it does not seem to be listed as a dir authority yet, is this again because of the new relay thing (wait a few weeks for it to be measured)?
Thanks.