Ok, 1st on to MATT  
"I missed your SOCKS question."
Well that doesnt matter because I took you advice on the first reply you sent explaing things so I commented all again as suggested. So all is well now on that part of the torrc file.
What I did do was kept the ORPort at 9001. I tried 443 but in the terminal it showed me it could not bind so it would not work.
As for the question on "hope this helps" you bet and well appricated. Thank you.
What I did on the exit on lines 186-190 here is what it is set at
"#ExitPolicy accept *:6660-6667,reject *:* # allow irc ports on IPv4 and IPv6 but no more
#ExitPolicy accept *:119 # accept nntp ports on IPv4 and IPv6 as well as default exit policy
#ExitPolicy accept *4:119 # accept nntp ports on IPv4 only as well as default exit policy
#ExitPolicy accept6 *6:119 # accept nntp ports on IPv6 only as well as default exit policy
ExitPolicy reject *:0  #no exits allowed: Minus the quotes natrually. this line is line 190
The links you sent me to look thru was interesting. Per what it says I believe port 443 for the ORPort would be best but until I get the bind issue I need to learn to do I best leave it set at 9001 for now.
As for the reading on the relay
ORPort 443
Exitpolicy reject *:*                   <stock in the box>
Nickname ididnotconfig
ContactInfo human@...
 
{ORPort 9001
Exitpolicy reject *:* <how i set mine>
Nickname danielboon
ContactInfo human@...}
back to line 190 I do have it UNCOMMENTED as you can see.
{ExitPolicy reject *:0  #no exits allowed}
Maybe i can comment line 190, I am not sure but u or Jen will get me right.
................................................................................................
This part is Addressed to Jen
 
Regarding the exit settings:
Is this relay running on a computer at your home, Daniel? <answer is yes, my tower with a 64bit linux system duel core>
 
Is there other important stuff stored/running on that computer? <basically no important stuff. I do have some stuff but only mount the partitons when I need. Think I'm safe on that>
 
If the answer to AT LEAST ONE of those two questions is yes, you should definitely set
"ExitRelay 0" and "ExitPolicy reject *:*".
Actually, you should set this, regardless of the answers, unless you
know exactly, what it means to run an exit-relay and are willing and
prepared to do this.
 
<what I want to do is run a relay to help fuel the system. So is a relay and exit different?>
and to the both of you I too will enjoying working with the group. I'm interested in many things at my age. I am self taught on all with books and just working with various OS's. Windows has been out for my many years once I got to now linux.
As for both if you 2 are good enough to give me your names I can to that too. It is David so we can use that.
 
I do have a setback here in the terminal I will post it>
 
{Sep 03 23:57:39.000 [notice] Bootstrapped 0%: Starting
Sep 03 23:57:47.000 [notice] Bootstrapped 80%: Connecting to the Tor network
Sep 03 23:57:48.000 [notice] Bootstrapped 85%: Finishing handshake with first hop
Sep 03 23:57:49.000 [notice] Guessed our IP address as 108.79.14.224 (source: 154.35.175.225).
Sep 03 23:57:49.000 [notice] Bootstrapped 90%: Establishing a Tor circuit
Sep 03 23:57:51.000 [notice] Tor has successfully opened a circuit. Looks like client functionality is working.
Sep 03 23:57:51.000 [notice] Bootstrapped 100%: Done
Sep 03 23:57:51.000 [notice] Now checking whether ORPort 108.79.14.224:9001 is reachable... (this may take up to 20 minutes -- look for log messages indicating success)
Sep 03 23:59:07.000 [notice] Your network connection speed appears to have changed. Resetting timeout to 60s after 18 timeouts and 1000 buildtimes.
Sep 04 00:07:45.000 [notice] Your network connection speed appears to have changed. Resetting timeout to 60s after 18 timeouts and 100 buildtimes.
Sep 04 00:11:48.000 [notice] Self-testing indicates your ORPort is reachable from the outside. Excellent. Publishing server descriptor.
Sep 04 00:11:49.000 [notice] Performing bandwidth self-test...done.
 
{Sep 04 00:11:56.000 [notice] Your network connection speed appears to have changed. Resetting timeout to 60s after 18 timeouts and 104 buildtimes.} 
 
<what is going on with that. I did not change anything and I am not doing or using anything to set  it back. Right with the MB too.}
 
I'll  check back in the morn. 21 hrs today is enough for my butt. C/Ya
 
 
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3. Re: tor-relays-strike-snowden (jensm1)


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Message: 1
Date: Sat, 3 Sep 2016 16:18:29 -0400
From: Matt Traudt <sirmatt@ksu.edu>
To: <tor-relays@lists.torproject.org>
Subject: Re: [tor-relays] tor-relays Digest, 3 questions on torcc file
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Daniel Boone

I missed your SOCKS question.

If you do not intend to directly use this Tor instance to access the Tor
network, you should leave the SocksPort as it was. By default Tor only
listens on localhost:9050 (as the documentation indicates). Therefore,
even if you *do* intend to use this Tor instance to access the Tor
network, by default you can already point your applications towards
localhost:9050.

So in most cases, this option can be left alone so the default
configuration can do its thing. Either you won't use the SOCKS proxy and
it is harmlessly listening on localhost anyway, or you are like most
people and don't need it to listen on non-localhost non-9050. For either
case, the default behavior is fine.

Hope this helps.

Matt

On 09/03/2016 03:55 PM, daniel boone wrote:
>
> I got a couple of question to ask on the torrc file and I hope one of
> you will direct me.
>
> Ok here we go. I got it working as a relay which i can see in the
> terminal. I just started so it is still testing bandwidth. but this is
> not my questions
>
> 1. on line 18 of mine it is about Socks. I was reading in the man pages
> on this. It was #Socksport 9050. Per the man pages I took out the
> comment and placed as "+" per the page. So now it is *+SOCKSPort 9050 #
> Default: Bind to localhost:9050 for local connections.*
>
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Date: Sun, 4 Sep 2016 01:35:50 +0200
From: jensm1 <jensm1@bbjh.de>
To: tor-relays@lists.torproject.org
Subject: Re: [tor-relays] tor-relays Digest, 3 questions on torcc file
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I agree to everything Matt said.

A good rule of thumb for tor configuration is "leave everything at
default, unless you've got a reason to change it".

Also keep in mind that configuration files (and especially their
comments) are mostly about what you CAN do, not what you SHOULD do.

Regarding the control port: I think you don't need it at all, unless
you're doing something unusual or don't have ssh access to the computer
tor is running on. If both run on the same machine, arm is doing fine
with just the (unix) control socket.

Regarding the exit settings:
Is this relay running on a computer at your home, Daniel? Is there other
important stuff stored/running on that computer? If the answer to AT
LEAST ONE of those two questions is yes, you should definitely set
"ExitRelay 0" and "ExitPolicy reject *:*".
Actually, you should set this, regardless of the answers, unless you
know exactly, what it means to run an exit-relay and are willing and
prepared to do this.


Jens


Am 03.09.2016 um 22:18 schrieb Matt Traudt:
> Daniel Boone
>
> I missed your SOCKS question.
>
> If you do not intend to directly use this Tor instance to access the Tor
> network, you should leave the SocksPort as it was. By default Tor only
> listens on localhost:9050 (as the documentation indicates). Therefore,
> even if you *do* intend to use this Tor instance to access the Tor
> network, by default you can already point your applications towards
> localhost:9050.
>
> So in most cases, this option can be left alone so the default
> configuration can do its thing. Either you won't use the SOCKS proxy and
> it is harmlessly listening on localhost anyway, or you are like most
> people and don't need it to listen on non-localhost non-9050. For either
> case, the default behavior is fine.
>
> Hope this helps.
>
> Matt
>
> On 09/03/2016 03:55 PM, daniel boone wrote:
>>
>> I got a couple of question to ask on the torrc file and I hope one of
>> you will direct me.
>>
>> Ok here we go. I got it working as a relay which i can see in the
>> terminal. I just started so it is still testing bandwidth. but this is
>> not my questions
>>
>> 1. on line 18 of mine it is about Socks. I was reading in the man pages
>> on this. It was #Socksport 9050. Per the man pages I took out the
>> comment and placed as "+" per the page. So now it is *+SOCKSPort 9050 #
>> Default: Bind to localhost:9050 for local connections.*
>>
>>
>
>
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Date: Sun, 4 Sep 2016 01:38:28 +0200
From: jensm1 <jensm1@bbjh.de>
To: tor-relays@lists.torproject.org
Subject: Re: [tor-relays] tor-relays-strike-snowden
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First, let me welcome you to the world of relay operators! It's always
nice to see new faces here, because it means I'm not the only "new guy"
(just started running a relay not that long ago). Of course you won't be
kicked out just for that one mail! I've seen a lot of worse FUD on here,
which is probably why I reacted like I did, your mail just happened to
be the last straw.

If you still have problems with your relay, you could try to ask your
(specific!) questions here or on the tor stackexchange. I'll also be
happy to help you, if I can.

Jens

Am 03.09.2016 um 16:59 schrieb daniel boone:
>
> Jesm1, sorry about my rant. I am new to working with a relay and also
> to Tor. Please bear with me on all of this. Give me a Chance. I just
> wanted to help the project and not sit on my ass like some are afraid
> to do. I will admitt i need to learn a few things on here. My mouth
> for the first one. As for Snowden, he worked for a SubContractor and
> was brought into the CIA or the NSA that way. I think it is wonderful
> what the man did. He brought it all out in the OPEN for the world to
> see. To see just how corrupt the security agency's are over in the
> States. Look how they treated him. A man that told the whole truth and
> if he would go back they would Kill Him.
> I've said enough on that Jesm. I need some work and that is why I came
> to the mailing list and Hope I can get some of my understanding of the
> whole project and only Hope I am not cut from here cause of this. I
> did get my relay running and it was what I was doing wrong on the
> torcc file. Please Lets shake hands and start over. That is all i can
> ask. Hope you take me up on it. The #tor chat room was of no help for
> they just dont seem to want to help some with new questions.
> -db-
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